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In this paper, I explored the impact of relational gathering over transactional action in mobilizing communities for the common through conversations between the First Baptist Church of Madison and the Presbyterian Church of Chatham Township. Our dialogues moved towards more relational than transactional through four Zoom meetings as we learned more about one another. We learned that there is strength in being relational versus being transactional. Transactional actions lack the foundational integrity to sustain relationally and effect lasting change.
We realized the value in listening and questioning to move beyond stereotypes and preconceived notions based on rumor and hearsay through our four dialogues. The open and honest discussion takes time, and one must be patient in the process to not rush to prove a hypothesis. In rushing to conclusions, one will miss the opportunity to learn about oneself and others. Through open dialogue, one can risk becoming vulnerable and thus allowing one authentic self to come through.
In moving from transactional action to a relational gathering, one must be patient in creating a brave space for people to feel comfortable with one another. Moreover, as people become more relaxed, sharing becomes less guarded.
Mobilizing the community towards the common good is a lesson in patience and perseverance. The common good ought to be centered on shared values with the church and the community. It takes time to assess the common good through conversation with people outside of your usual circle of people.
This project opened our congregation up to new possibilities of relationships with other church communities and our local community.
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